Safewords are a good idea. So are seatbelts. Or so conventional wisdom would indicate. Take a deeper look at the statistics, however, and the story becomes more complicated. I remember reading a post for DJ Black, an author and dominant that I had come to respect, indicating that he did not use safewords. I … Continue reading Safewords and Seatbelts
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Tears, Revisited
I wrote about crying during a spanking a few months back. A lot has changed in the meantime- and thankfully not much of it has involved crying. This is still something very close to the core of my submission, however. The desire to be brought to that state of emotional vulnerability and exhaustion and surrender still pulls … Continue reading Tears, Revisited
