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2018

07 January 201908 January 2019 by Kia, posted in Community

I saw a crash on the quays last week. Busy dodging fellow pedestrians as I headed to the bus stop at the height of Christmas shopping season, I almost failed to notice the surprisingly soft crunch of well-designed crumple zones doing their job. It’s shocking how much damage can occur with so little noise. I'm … Continue reading 2018

Tagged friendship, resoluitions, writing9 Comments

Happy Holidays!

25 December 201724 December 2017 by Kia, posted in Community

I sit in the pub with a pint and a laptop, typing frantically, focused on my work, my words. Out of the corner of my eye though, I sometimes see the concerned looks. Sometimes notice the pity. It’s the holidays, and they think I’m alone.   I’m not though, not really.   I’m with you. … Continue reading Happy Holidays!

Tagged Christmas, friendship, virtual3 Comments

Lost and Found

08 September 2016 by Kia, posted in Thoughts on Submission

A few weeks ago, a good friend closed his spanking blog.  He did so on his own terms, and for the happiest  of personal reasons.  It was the best way, if there is a best way, to leave this virtual world. We are still in touch by email, and planning a visit soon.  Even so, … Continue reading Lost and Found

Tagged friendship, learning, partners2 Comments

Softly, Softly

09 February 201619 February 2017 by Kia, posted in Fiction, Kia's Stories

An instalment of the Sarah Saga   It felt like cheating; it was the clip-on tie of lingerie. However, Sarah justified her choice to herself by reasoning that these would be the easiest to get into in a hurry, and that no one else would see.  She had no intention of playing, and if she … Continue reading Softly, Softly

Tagged flogging, friendship, public play3 Comments

Tears

09 October 201504 October 2015 by Kia, posted in Thoughts on Submission

When discussing things theoretically (i.e.- when my bottom is in no immediate danger), I want to  cry during a spanking.  I want that kind of emotional release, want to be comfortable enough to experience that sort of vulnerability.  It sounds, again in theory, like a wonderful experience.   The reality has been quite different. I’ve … Continue reading Tears

Tagged crying, fear, friendship, trust6 Comments

Salad Days

05 September 2015 by Kia, posted in Thoughts on Submission

I told him that I didn’t like the idea of play parties. Spanking is a private thing for me, something personal, more tied up with correction than pleasure to be suitable for public consumption. Mere weeks later, I found myself bent before him, face pressed into the cool hard wall of a decidedly unusual nightclub, … Continue reading Salad Days

Tagged exploration, friendship, party, public4 Comments

Terrible Twos

21 June 2015 by Kia, posted in Community

Acknowledging Imperfection turns two years old today! The patient among you who have been following along have likely noticed that the fits and moods associated with children that age seems to have been started. Posting regularly hasn’t happened as planned lately, and I’m using this milestone as an opportunity to return with renewed dedication to … Continue reading Terrible Twos

Tagged friendship, milestone, reflectionLeave a comment

Hair

23 March 201519 February 2017 by Kia, posted in Fiction, Kia's Stories

Nothing quite compared to the feeling of a soft spring breeze in newly-straightened hair. It was the first time Julie had attempted to do such a thing to her own head, having only recently consented to let her hairdresser give it a go. The results Sharon had managed to produce were stunning, but expensive. Three … Continue reading Hair

Tagged domestic, friendship, hand6 Comments

The View from There

31 May 201423 March 2014 by Kia, posted in Thoughts on Submission

Back when I first started this whole blogging thing, I came out to a vanilla friend. I was about to get together with a man I met online and needed someone to act as a safety call. It seemed a good idea to clue her in a bit, though this was not a decision undertaken … Continue reading The View from There

Tagged friendship, outside perspective, vanilla7 Comments

Enjoying the Moment

13 May 2014 by Kia, posted in Worth a Thousand Words

An impending spanking is no reason not to enjoy time with friends.

Tagged friendship, opportunities, tenderness3 Comments

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