“There’s quite a change in her attitude when you’re around, I’m a bit disappointed that you haven’t noticed.” “How so?” I ask, stepping right past the paradoxical expectation of having noticed a change from something I couldn’t have observed. “She becomes less submissive. More bratty. I think it may be because she’s nervous.” … Continue reading Defensive Bratting
One of my favourite aspects of attending kink events is the opportunity to observe, learn, and try practices outside of my primary interest in spanking (there has been plenty of that as well, though 🙂 ). This is how I came to be aware of- and grow to enjoy electroplay. Even now, I'm not … Continue reading In Other News. . .
My experience in the scene has involved a great deal of physical pain. While I’m no masochist, many of the things I am drawn to come with a hearty dose of pain. In my vanilla life I did all I could, as a sensible person, to avoid pain. With exposure, however, my fear has … Continue reading Pain Management
2017 was a very hectic year. CLASS has continued to evolve, and is a constant source of fun, friends, and occasional frustration. A minor health scare earlier in the year has helped me to refocus on taking care of myself. I've spent more time on a vanilla hobby, which has led to much travel and … Continue reading The Anti-Resolutions
I fell back into my Christmas card-sending habit this year. (Or perhaps it might be more accurate to say the habit fell back onto me, as the unsent cards came tumbling down in a glittery mess from the closet top shelf during a recent attempt at cleaning). A lot can change in a year. Based … Continue reading Glittery Greetings and Gifts of Trust
So- how was it for you? After my first experience with this exercise, I asked myself the following questions: How did this exercise go? Any regrets? Is this helpful? Are you learning? Looking back, do you see any trends? At the time, I kept the responses private, but I am posting them here … Continue reading 30 Days of Submission – Final Reflecion
Each day in September, I will be posting a question about submission, along with two responses- the first written five years ago and the second from today. I welcome all who wish to join in this exercise to post your own answers in the comments, adjusting the question if necessary to suit your own roles … Continue reading 30 Days of Submission: Day 30