Each day in September, I will be posting a question about submission, along with two responses- the first written five years ago and the second from today. I welcome all who wish to join in this exercise to post your own answers in the comments, adjusting the question if necessary to suit your own roles … Continue reading 30 Days of Submission: Day 14
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(Forcefully) Guided Submission
I’ve read a great deal about how some strong women want to be forced to submit to the one they love. It is a part of their nature, but it does not come naturally until their partner brings it out. These are fascinating and lovely people, and the dynamic these couples have is magical. But … Continue reading (Forcefully) Guided Submission
Hands
I've always been drawn to punishments involving hands. Hands are erotic- whether the giver or receiver of the punishment- but not nearly as overtly sexual as naked nether regions or implements. Unlike both other things, they can be left in the open without drawing attention. Except, of course, from those who know what they have … Continue reading Hands
The Allure of Fantasy
When I first started exploring the world of spanking sites, I was drawn mostly to the stories. It was easier to approach the subject through a layer of fantasy. Some concepts I found deeply disturbing at the time (and some I still do). In the world of fiction, nothing ever hurt too much, no one … Continue reading The Allure of Fantasy
The Transition
In spanking stories- whether real, fictional, or somewhere in between, I rarely find the spanking itself to be the most significant moment. It's a crucial part of the story, but it's the context- the before and after- that I find more poignant. If I had to pick a moment that I feel defines a story, … Continue reading The Transition
Growing Up and Down
I've always wanted to be older. In third grade, the first year I returned to the same school I had previously attended, I remember being confused to find the same people that had been in my class last year still with me. "But I am in third grade now. Where are the third graders?" I … Continue reading Growing Up and Down
Anxiety and Discovery
Gazing out the rippled glass of the window, she began to relax. She'd managed to spill both her drink and half the contents of her purse down the stairs on her first attempt to reach the upper level of the pub. The Australian tourists who had helped her recombobulate had been kind, if somewhat bemused. … Continue reading Anxiety and Discovery
Becoming Submissive
I can't help but feel like something of an imposter writing here. There is a certain irony in writing a spanking blog and not yet having been spanked. What if when it happens I don't like it? (I know, I'm not supposed to, but you know. . .) While I've had these yearnings for so … Continue reading Becoming Submissive
Crumbling Castles and Spanking
I have a bit of a thing (the kind of thing some may call an unhealthy obsession) with castles. In my opinion, there are three basic kinds- ranging from the fully functioning refurbished attractions filled with bus loads of tourists to just a few crumbling walls on a hill- indistinguishable from a field of boulders … Continue reading Crumbling Castles and Spanking
Into the Dark
I was there the whole time, but I'm still not quite sure how I went from "I could never do that" to "I have to do this." For years I have toyed with my interest in spanking and submission- exploring it, suppressing it, ignoring it. I have learned that this is a part of me … Continue reading Into the Dark
Acknowledging Imperfection 