My experience in the scene has involved a great deal of physical pain. While I’m no masochist, many of the things I am drawn to come with a hearty dose of pain. In my vanilla life I did all I could, as a sensible person, to avoid pain. With exposure, however, my fear has … Continue reading Pain Management
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30 Days of Submission: Day 29
Each day in September, I will be posting a question about submission, along with two responses- the first written five years ago and the second from today. I welcome all who wish to join in this exercise to post your own answers in the comments, adjusting the question if necessary to suit your own roles … Continue reading 30 Days of Submission: Day 29
More Silly Questions
I was having a girl's day out with a good friend who had decided it was time to introduce me to the wonders of eyebrow waxing. We were about to enter the shop- on the threshold and getting in the way of fellow shoppers- when she stopped and turned back with a look of anxiety. … Continue reading More Silly Questions
Forgiveness
Forgiveness- it's a tricky one, isn't it? I think it's one of the reasons I'm drawn to this spanking thing; it's practice in forgiveness. We can start with the little things- the things that he doesn't really care about (more just excuses to spank than actual crimes), then we can move up to the things … Continue reading Forgiveness
Acknowledging Imperfection 