Kink-aware is all good and well, though, as with all things, balance is critical. I think I may have missed the memo on how vanilla people meet partners. I’ve noticed a pattern recently where I think we’re just having a drink and a chat, but suddenly someone tries to throw tongues into the mix or … Continue reading Vanilla-Clueless
Month: September 2014
Limits
For the rest of us, the process is considerably more chaotic, and sometimes considerably unenjoyable. “Limit” sounds like such a simple word- something that one knows one won’t enjoy, and therefore won’t do. Once such obstacles identified and labelled as such, things run smoothly as traffic finds its way around them. It’s the days where … Continue reading Limits
A Simple Slippering
“Gyugh!” Kirstin shrieked, headless of the late night hour and the reverberating echo that followed her outburst as she instinctively squished the spider under the sole of her slipper. She stood, panting in recovery, for a moment before collecting a bit of tissue to address the small mess she had created. Kristen, in by and … Continue reading A Simple Slippering
Long-Distance Discipline – Update
A while back, I indicated that I was about to embark on an experiment with long-distance discipline. I have to say that I have been pleasantly surprised (and, at times, pleasantly sore) so far. As I’d seen before, any sort of regular contact with like-minded people is rewarding in itself in most cases. This is … Continue reading Long-Distance Discipline – Update
Checking In
Amy saw the foam-headed foe immediately upon emerging from the ladies room. It sat beside her jacket, staring her down as no inanimate object should be able to do. Amy didn’t bother to suppress her groan at the offering. She wasn't one to turn down a pint, and more than happy to return the favour, … Continue reading Checking In
Deep Philosophical Question
A girl with a certain fondness of both rules and spankings finds herself in an unusual predicament. How does one satisfy both desires while maintaining personal integrity? And how is such a girl to have fun when busy pondering such fundamental conundrums? I guess she'll just have to be creative. . . and that can … Continue reading Deep Philosophical Question
Acknowledging Imperfection 