I don't remember choosing polyamory. Somewhere along my search for a disciplinarian, I got pleasantly distracted, and found that I had several people in my life who, while not life-partners, were more than just friends. Mostly, this was lovely and fluid and happy. But, as things do when people are involved, eventually things got complicated. … Continue reading Non-Fiction Book of the Month: The Ethical Slut
I saw a crash on the quays last week. Busy dodging fellow pedestrians as I headed to the bus stop at the height of Christmas shopping season, I almost failed to notice the surprisingly soft crunch of well-designed crumple zones doing their job. It’s shocking how much damage can occur with so little noise. I'm … Continue reading 2018
I was thrilled to see that DJ Black of A Voice in the Corner has reactivated his site today! After a hiatus of more than two years, and many tantalising hints of return (including a few I was lucky to receive in comments here!) I'm very excited to see what stories and anecdotes he has … Continue reading Welcome Back DJ Black!
“There’s quite a change in her attitude when you’re around, I’m a bit disappointed that you haven’t noticed.” “How so?” I ask, stepping right past the paradoxical expectation of having noticed a change from something I couldn’t have observed. “She becomes less submissive. More bratty. I think it may be because she’s nervous.” … Continue reading Defensive Bratting
It's been a busy month (more on that later!), though I did receive the happy news that the 7th issue of Disciplinary Tales, a collection of stories by DJ Black, has been released by LSF Publications. For those, like me, who are missing his A Voice in the Corner blog, this is a lovely … Continue reading Book of the Month: Disciplinary Tales (Issue 7!) by DJ Black
Things have been busy here! Hard to believe that all of May (and most of June) have passed without a post- and to top it off I nearly missed my blogiversary today. The draft post-folder is bulging though. Recently I've had the pleasure of getting to know a few more new spanky friends (including … Continue reading Five
One of my favourite aspects of attending kink events is the opportunity to observe, learn, and try practices outside of my primary interest in spanking (there has been plenty of that as well, though 🙂 ). This is how I came to be aware of- and grow to enjoy electroplay. Even now, I'm not … Continue reading In Other News. . .