I don’t remember choosing polyamory. Somewhere along my search for a disciplinarian, I got pleasantly distracted, and found that I had several people in my life who, while not life-partners, were more than just friends. Mostly, this was lovely and fluid and happy. But, as things do when people are involved, eventually things got complicated.
At such times, advice from those who have gone before is invaluable. I found The Ethical Slut remarkably reassuring and very helpful. The relaxed, humorous tone helped swallow some of the more challenging topics, and the book provided many tools for having difficult conversations and sorting through torrents of emotion.
From the publisher:
The essential guide for singles and couples who want to explore polyamory in ways that are ethically and emotionally sustainable.
For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle–from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and to define relationships on their own terms.
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Acknowledging Imperfection 
Good that you are back – it seems you are having quite an adventure 🙂
An adventure indeed! Plenty to catch up on- topics may be somewhat more varied than before, but have a few solidly spanky posts in the works 🙂
Nothing recent going on here, but I just want to say 1. Nobody should dictate to others… what follows is just my opinion, therefore pretty unimportant. 2. I really, really dislike the word “slut.” (“Middle English: of unknown origin.”) Even though I am sure it is intended ironically in the book title… I just despise the word.