A slightly longer-than-comment-sized answer to a brunch question Bonnie posed a while back. I've learned many things since I first started lurking on spanking blogs. At first there were a lot of words to get used to- and of course the many nuances between the different ways in which people incorporate these practices into their … Continue reading Spanking, Submission, and the Path to Enlightenment
Category: Thoughts on Submission
The Transition
In spanking stories- whether real, fictional, or somewhere in between, I rarely find the spanking itself to be the most significant moment. It's a crucial part of the story, but it's the context- the before and after- that I find more poignant. If I had to pick a moment that I feel defines a story, … Continue reading The Transition
Growing Up and Down
I've always wanted to be older. In third grade, the first year I returned to the same school I had previously attended, I remember being confused to find the same people that had been in my class last year still with me. "But I am in third grade now. Where are the third graders?" I … Continue reading Growing Up and Down
Becoming Submissive
I can't help but feel like something of an imposter writing here. There is a certain irony in writing a spanking blog and not yet having been spanked. What if when it happens I don't like it? (I know, I'm not supposed to, but you know. . .) While I've had these yearnings for so … Continue reading Becoming Submissive
Crumbling Castles and Spanking
I have a bit of a thing (the kind of thing some may call an unhealthy obsession) with castles. In my opinion, there are three basic kinds- ranging from the fully functioning refurbished attractions filled with bus loads of tourists to just a few crumbling walls on a hill- indistinguishable from a field of boulders … Continue reading Crumbling Castles and Spanking
Into the Dark
I was there the whole time, but I'm still not quite sure how I went from "I could never do that" to "I have to do this." For years I have toyed with my interest in spanking and submission- exploring it, suppressing it, ignoring it. I have learned that this is a part of me … Continue reading Into the Dark
Acknowledging Imperfection 