No stories today, but plenty on the way. Life has been wonderfully busy, and while I have loads of new experiences to write about, I haven't had the time to wrangle my thoughts into any sort of logical order just yet. A full week later, and I’m still blissfully happy from spending the most amazing … Continue reading No Stories Today
Category: Thoughts on Submission
Discretion and the Internet
I remember hearing online advertising described as the art of walking the line between anticipating customers desires and freaking them out. I’ve come to terms with the fact that certain corporations will know what I am. Google and WordPress, certainly, have more than enough information about Kia to know what sort of things she spends … Continue reading Discretion and the Internet
Safewords and Seatbelts
Safewords are a good idea. So are seatbelts. Or so conventional wisdom would indicate. Take a deeper look at the statistics, however, and the story becomes more complicated. I remember reading a post for DJ Black, an author and dominant that I had come to respect, indicating that he did not use safewords. I … Continue reading Safewords and Seatbelts
The Importance of Discipline
The below was initially written for a school role play scene. For some reason, teacher was less than impressed. A well-meaning classmate suggested that I may have better success here- what do you think? The Importance of Discipline in a Student’s Life Being a student is stressful. A student must continually juggle the … Continue reading The Importance of Discipline
Respectful Silence
I had been asked to sing. I didn’t like it. I much prefer sitting off in the corner, or in a group of friends. Singing quietly to my pint or blending my voice with the rest of the group. At least it was a noisy night. Not overly crowded, but with enough else … Continue reading Respectful Silence
Oddities and Experimentation
“I find you intriguing; you’re the only person I’ve met who doesn’t respond to intimate touch.” I was a bit taken aback. I thought I liked intimate touch. Hugs are wonderful, cuddling is incredibly comforting. Kissing though, that’s a bit sloppy and something I’d rather avoid. And I’d not like you fiddling with … Continue reading Oddities and Experimentation
Tears, Revisited
I wrote about crying during a spanking a few months back. A lot has changed in the meantime- and thankfully not much of it has involved crying. This is still something very close to the core of my submission, however. The desire to be brought to that state of emotional vulnerability and exhaustion and surrender still pulls … Continue reading Tears, Revisited
Young Master
There was a thread on FetLife a while back on when it is appropriate for someone to identify as “Master”. (Here for those interested- I would have replied directly, but the problem with forums and such is that by the time I manage to assemble coherent thoughts the thread is often long dead. Rather than … Continue reading Young Master
Brilliance and Bribery
How to bribe your way out of a spanking: Some spankees sing praises for the padding offered by an extra pair of panties or two. I think, however, I may have hit on a better plan for softening the impact of a spanking. Like all good plans, it starts at the pub. When … Continue reading Brilliance and Bribery
Writer’s Tears
(This is not a story about the whiskey of the same name. I have a story about that, too, but it’s hardly appropriate here). A while back, I joined a local writing group. A good friend who is aware of my writing here, but who does not share these interests, recommended me to them, … Continue reading Writer’s Tears
Acknowledging Imperfection 