Spanking really is a superpower. Whether as the spanker or the spankee, one has a certain power over one's partner. The power to help one see the error of their ways, or the power to help one share wisdom. The power to deepen affection by baring a part of one's soul (and a part of … Continue reading The Spanking Superpower Part 1: Discovery
Category: Thoughts on Submission
Hierarchy
I am submissive, but I have no fear of making decisions. I quite like being in charge actually. Provided there are boundaries. And clear goals. I'd rather have to decide how to execute someone else's vision, than set the course, but that's a different topic. It's not so much the subservience that attracts me to … Continue reading Hierarchy
The Scolding Chair
She hated having to sit here. Just sitting and waiting, knowing that any minute he would come in and they would begin. His calmness might have been reassuring, but usually just served to underscore her own anxiety. He would speak gently and pointedly. She would try to disappear, to mentally be somewhere else, but then … Continue reading The Scolding Chair
Good Girls, Bad Girls
I remember being terrified of getting into any sort of trouble. At school, there were the good girls and the bad girls. The good girls with all the extra freedom and responsibilities and the bad girls who were kept under a close watch. The good girls who spent their afternoons at practice for this thing … Continue reading Good Girls, Bad Girls
Bliss
After fighting all day, there is a certain bliss of being put firmly in one's place, relaxing into it just to be.
Confession Behind a Screen
I was raised Catholic, and I remember spending a whole year of classes preparing for my first confession- or reconciliation as they insisted on calling it. We were told there were two options for how this would happen. We would either be seated in front of the priest (presented as the modern method that we … Continue reading Confession Behind a Screen
Hands
I've always been drawn to punishments involving hands. Hands are erotic- whether the giver or receiver of the punishment- but not nearly as overtly sexual as naked nether regions or implements. Unlike both other things, they can be left in the open without drawing attention. Except, of course, from those who know what they have … Continue reading Hands
Why Punishment?
I remember reading a paper for an education course which proposed that punishment was ineffective and unnecessary. The argument was that it is an awareness of natural consequences and social norms that teaches, rather than arbitrarily imposed restrictions. There was much class discussion on this topic. It was a radical concept for many of us, … Continue reading Why Punishment?
The Allure of Fantasy
When I first started exploring the world of spanking sites, I was drawn mostly to the stories. It was easier to approach the subject through a layer of fantasy. Some concepts I found deeply disturbing at the time (and some I still do). In the world of fiction, nothing ever hurt too much, no one … Continue reading The Allure of Fantasy
Why?
In response to this question from Dom with Pen. I'm rather late, and with a rather long answer (I did submit a very brief version, but, yes, even that was rather late. So spank me.), but I find this question intriguing from both perspectives. If by "why" one means "where does the drive come from," … Continue reading Why?
Acknowledging Imperfection 